Hi there! I’m Lindsey Ross, Owner-Operator of The Okie Haven, LLC. I am a mom, wife, and doula who is honored to be supporting Tulsa area moms and their families. My friends know that I have a Lorelai Gilmore level tolerance for coffee. My kindle follows me everywhere. And my family is my absolute world. Being a mother is the greatest honor ever.

As a Certified Birth Doula (MCD), Certified Postpartum Doula (MCPD), and rebozo-trained birth professional, I offer compassionate, holistic, evidence-informed support that honors your instincts, your choices, and your story. I’m also certified in Adult and Pediatric First Aid/CPR/AED and hold a Food Handler Permit.

I’m most passionate about helping families prepare for and experience physiological birth through natural comfort measures, movement, positioning, and rebozo techniques! During the postpartum season, I love nurturing mothers with breastfeeding support, cozy meal preparation, practical household help, and encouragement as they find their rhythm.

I know that pregnancy, birth, postpartum, and parenthood can be beautiful, messy, and confusing all at once. I am here to remind you that you do not have to do it alone!

My Philosophy

I believe birth & postpartum are sacred. I honor your choices. I value the vital role of your partner. I support the mother-baby connection. And I believe in listening to the natural wisdom of your body. I don’t show up with an agenda or bias. I just show up for YOU. Whether you are seeking consistent doula support or you just want a couple hours to rest while knowing things are taken care of, I’ve got you covered.

Why “The Okie Haven”?

A haven is defined as a place of safety, peace, and rest. That meaning is at the core of everything I do. Through doula support, education, and holistic care, my goal is to create an environment where you can slow down, ask questions, be authentic, and feel confident in your choices. A place where your voice is honored, your intuition is trusted, and you are never expected to navigate motherhood all alone!